Business Gift Giving. How about some general thoughts and a few caveats on the matter?
A few years ago, we'd adopted a free-range cat. (My fault, actually.) This cat was an ideal house guest. When she wanted to thank us, she'd meow outside the door to come back in. When I opened the door, I would find a dead mouse. This is a cat's way of saying, "Thank you".
The dead mouse was a lot nicer gift than some of the gifts I'd received.
First of all, it was sincere.
Second of all, the cat did not become insulted when I did not hang the dead mouse on the wall, nor display it on the coffee table.
Now, there are a few codicils and cavets to the arts and sciences of giving gifts in the business world.
In this country, it is innapropriate to give a gift that the recipient know is more expensive than the giver can afford.
I'd heard, many years ago, that when giving a gift in Japan (e.g. a pen and pencil set), it is more appropriate to give the set in silver than in gold as gold is seen to be ostentatious. ( I need verification on that matter. )
In some Asian countries, you never wrap a gift in white paper. That is the colour associated with funerals.
In some cultures, red is the proper wrapping-paper colour for festive gift-giving.
Perhaps we could open up a discussion to share advice on the matter of gift giving in the business world?
Sincerest regards,
Slim.
ps. If your cat ever gives you a dead mouse, be sure to make a positive fuss over it. If you can't see how pleased your cat will be, you should not share your accomodations with a cat.
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